Tuesday, 21 October 2025

Tuesday 21st October - Cooler weather, warmer hearts

 Goodness, but it gets dark early these days! And my oh my, but isn't the sun slow to rise in the mornings!

I used to become steadily more apprehensive of the cold, and the gloom, and coming dreariness, and driechness of the winter months. Last year was different. How?

Here are my anti-gloom strategies;

Warmth;

I have warm socks, and proper slippers, so that my feet and ankles stay warm.




I keep a couple of cheerful rugs close at hand on the back of the settee, ready to wrap myself up in

 

I've chosen some really cheerful wool to knit and crochet with - watching the next colour slip through my fingers and up onto the hook or needles is a tiny little pleasure 


 

Still on the subject of wrapping up warm; I bought winter weight thermal lined hiking trousers! I might look like a michelin man but I don't care!

That's the outer warmth (did I mention my lovely winter pjs? Brushed cotton from Land's End?) 

For inner warmth;

I try and notice things here and there and around and about, maybe a tree, a flower, or, if I get the opportunity, indulging in a favourite activity of people-watching; 

For example; overheard on a chilly day when having lunch outside at a NT gardens;

Older Man (like our age, oh dear!) carrying a tray out from the cafe service area; 'I couldn't stay there. Too hot. Far too hot. Had to leave.'

Wife, soothingly 'That's alright dear, let's sit here'.

He puts the tray down and rips off his jacket. She reaches for her bulky winter weatherproof coat and bundles herself up into it. They settle down companionably to have bread and soup and hot drinks; he's in shirtsleeves, she's cocooned in jacket, scarves, topped off by woolly hat.

Well, I found that little scene amusing...

Talking of trees and flowers; a small bunch or pot of flowers where I can see it at odd times of the day, like the sweet peas I mentioned yesterday, or the last few roses I can see through the window, are a great pick-me-up. When there's nothing left in the garden, (there's always something left in the garden!) I'll get some potted bulbs from a shop and enjoy those instead.

Reading; it was one of the blogs written by Sue (but which blog? which Sue?) that put me on to the idea of a seasonal bookshelf. I never know whether to pick books that will bring Summer back - or books that will reflect Autumn and Winter. My current book is set in the midst of a Canadian winter - now that's WINTER! I've read a couple of murder mysteries set in Iceland - they know about cold, and about staying warm! 



22 comments:

  1. Your strategy is spot on... above all, people need color and warmth – both physically and emotionally.
    Lovely warm socks, I've already knitted some of those myself, and your colorful crocheted blanket is absolutely fantastic... beautiful.
    Have fun knitting. Yes, we're approaching winter, so let's enjoy autumn for now... but winter will also be beautiful... wrapped up warm... I've also laid out my thermal pants.
    Best wishes from Viola

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    1. I think having positive strategies in place to enjoy the season is more than half the battle.

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  2. That couple could easily have been me and mine. He sits here in the summer wearing a sweatshirt and having the air conditioner set to 78F. Meanwhile I have to stop my cross stitching because the sweat is running into my eyes! I have shovelled snow off the deck while wearing a t-shirt when it was -20C. Obviously our internal thermostats are not aligned!

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    1. It's normally women who feel the cold more than men!

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    2. Not in our family! My mother’s mother wore flip-flops indoors even in the dead of winter, my father’s mother had the patio doors in her apartment wide open in the winter because “the building was overheated”, and my sister wears sandals and frequently puts on the room air conditioner even in the winter.

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    3. My mother INSISTED of having full central heating installed in the large old house we moved to early in the sixties, and had the thermostat at 22C all through winter. Plus an electric fire in her bedroom and a large wood fire in the living room!

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  3. Love the socks, I too like to wear warm clothes.. never had a pile of books with a theme, but did once make an Autumn 'meme' with a small pot of end of the season rose buds and some autumn coloured leaves draped around it and my cleaner threw out the leaves!!

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    1. Ah yes, autumn leaves are apt to look untidy- it's their nature.

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  4. Colour and warmth, definitely! I have a couple of lovely warm items to put on our my clothes in the cooler weather. My alpaca cardigan, a couple of lovely gilets, a cashmere cardigan I got in the charity shop- they really help!
    Poor woman, she sounded cold!

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    1. Cashmere - alpaca - just the names of the fibres are warming! Acrylic and polyester to have the same vibe...

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  5. Sue in Suffolk has the Seasonal Shelf. I type this sitting here in a jumper, skirt and thick wooly tights , with a blanket over my knees, beside my beloved, in a lightweight cotton shirt with sleeves rolled up, and thin summer trousers!!

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    1. That's it! Thanks for the reminder.
      I think I read that men have fewer receptors for cold on their skin than women; that could explain a lot...

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  6. Sounds like Sue in Suffolk gave you that great idea. I like your approach to winter!

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    1. I'm not going to be caught by surprise this year!

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  7. What a lovely post. I don't like the shorter days, dark mornings, dark afternoons. I am going to try to look upon them with cheer and think of things that can brighten the space around me. I do like cuddling up under a blanket, warm and cosy, makes me not want to move at all!

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    1. 'Be prepared', as they say. If I don't have A Plan I'm liable to reach for the chocolate digestive biscuits, cakes, endless toast and jam...

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  8. I think bright colours are the key. I don't like the cold and wear lots of layers, my husband wears t-shirts and shorts round the house! Mad. I always wear a scarf indoors and out. The short days are a bit of a downer but lots of soup, hot drinks and the odd biscuit really helps. Good to have a plan. Regards Sue H

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    1. Ginger tea... hot spiced berry cordial... fruit cake... yes please!

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  9. You're well prepared. I like your colourful socks. I wish more people wore brightly-coloured outerwear in the colder months. Seeing dark colours is not very cheerful, and of course, they/'re not so easily visible to traffic on dark roads.

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    1. I was disappointed that the winter coat I wanted only came in black! But I have bright scarves and hat to make up for it.

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  10. I had a little chuckle when I read about that couple and their hot/cold issues.
    I like all your strategies to keep cozy in winter. This week I got an electric throw that's the softest fabric ever. I put in under my quilt about half an hour before my bedtime. I take care to shut it off before I get into bed but my it is warm. I don't like flannelette sheets; I prefer cotton which can feel very cold.

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    1. I had flannelette sheets as aa child, I remember. We have had cotton for years, I don't think I could go back to flannelette now.

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