Good idea;
Bad Idea;
I tracked down the name of the wonder app; it is called mellowflow and the reviews are SCATHING;
Following up on the Reddit forum, I've come to the sad conclusion that my gut feeling of 'if it looks too good to be true, then it really is too good to be true'. My advice; stay away, and just stick at lesson no 1; 'tidy three things in your line of sight'.
Sadly, for tidying up and keeping it tidy, there's no way around actually... tidying! There doesn't seem to be a magic method, especially for butterfly brains like me.
I do try to;
- Set small, quickly achievable goals, like 5-10 mins, or one surface, or one task at a time.
- Take time to gloat and congratulate myself on the little successes.
- Never, ever, berate myself if I don't manage to do 'it', whatever 'it' is.
- Never push myself too far beyond what I am already able to do.
- Switch between types of tasks fairly frequently.
These have all come from the way I've learned to teach piano over the past 40 years, the main idea being to try and always
- Build upon successes; start with a low bar and raise it slowly.
- Associate the activity (even scales and sight reading!) with positive emotions.
- Avoid all negativity, crossness, tension, distress in learning.
- Gamify Just about everything.
- Constantly cheer oneself on.
Now, what three things can Iput away next? Oh dear, I'll have to find somewhere to put them first...
Now, here's a little 'spot the difference' game;
Before;
After three things were tidied;
I seem to be on a roll; three minutes later;
Happy happy happy! 🌞 💐 🏆
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I've shared this before but here we go again!Chopin Minute Waltz, Luca Sestak Trio





I was a Portage Visitor for many years and our motto was "Small steps". I apply that to everything in life it really helps. Regards Sue H
ReplyDeleteYes. I was dismayed when a highly stressy high academic achiever said in answer to my question about targets 'one should always aim as high as possible '. She was honestly uncomprehending of the small steps idea.
DeleteThanks for that, Kirsten. No one has come up with a wonder method. Sadness.
ReplyDeleteI guess it has to come partly from within, partly from 'stir up in us, O Lord' and the rest 'God helps those who help themselves'... ie he's not going to do it all while we watch, coffee in hand...
Delete'Come on, let your hands flap' my mother would admonish us if we were standing around not helping in whatever needed doing... (is that a Dutch expression, I wonder?)
What a great idea. Some good tips there. Goodness knows, I could use them!
ReplyDeleteIt's the starting of an unwelcome activity I find hardest, no matter how quick or easy it might actually be.
DeleteI suppose there's no easy method. Each one of us finds a way that suits us.
ReplyDeleteYes, that's how it is...
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